Where are you placing your attention?

A lot of you will have heard words along these lines. In fact anyone working on their own self development has a version of this to help them raise their self awareness.

Today I had a conversation with my colleague Neena Speding about what ‘where you place your attention matters’ means to me. Interestingly it means something different to both of us.

For me, I’ve come to realise and accept that I have a full life and diary. This means I can easily become distracted by interruptions, after all I am a people person and love those moments when I really connect with people. Great for me and them, not so good for my accountant who is waiting for me to complete my spreadsheet.

As I get older I know that if I want to get anything done I need to focus and give whatever I’m doing my full and undivided attention.

I have become an advocate of doing one thing at a time. This is taking some getting used to as I was a big fan of multi-tasking – I thought I could do everything and be everywhere all at the same time. In reality I was setting myself up to fail and disappoint everyday and that’s not how I wanted to live my life.

So, where I place my attention matters hugely depending on what I’m doing – now that I’m practising placing my attention on one thing and one person at a time I seem to get more done.

Where are you placing your attention?

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